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Det er viktig at når en er i sånne livssituasjoner så må vi ta hensyn til oss selv. Ikke slurve her - gjør det - tenk på deg selv, - vær egoistisk, for det er ikke egoistisk når det kommer til stykket. Alle får nyte godt av din evne til å pleie deg selv. Hva med jevnlig å sette av tid til voksentid - tid hvor kvinnen og mannen, mor og far, du og din partner - har alenetid. Ta tid til å være alene, få snakke sammen i fred og ro, tid til å være romantisk, tid til bare å nyte seg selv og partneren. Hva med en tur på kino, ut og nyte et herlig måltid, eller bestille time og ta imot herlig massasje, spasere en tur i skauen - ja, valgene er mange. Nyt livet mens dere kan, ta var på deg selv og ta vare på hverandre og ta ikke alt så alvorlig. Flørt med hverandre, fortell morsomme historier, lek, le og ha det fantastisk deilig. Trenger du noen andre å snakke med, få hjelp til å se livet ditt i et klarere perspektiv, lyst å realisere drømmene dine eller hva med å bedre kommunikasjonen med partneren din? Ta kontakt med meg på [email protected] Jeg er entusiastisk til å vise andre en god vei. Ikke nøl - ta kontakt nå! Jeg ønsker dere mange inspirerende øyeblikk. Klikk her for videosnutten. Varme tanker fra Marianne Dear Reader,
Only two more days and it is Christmas Evening. I am sitting here in the company of Lou Reed's best songs. I feel comforted and I feel vulnerable. My web page is called Grief and Happiness - Hand in Hand. I have experienced that to the fullest lately. It's only two weeks ago that I got this letter - a letter from a friend in the USA. He was a widower, had been so for the last three years. He was a loner, he also enjoyed his own company. However, after his beloved Lady died, he didn't handle his life very well. First he closed down the Internet connection. Then he closed his telephone line. As if this wasn't enough, he turned off his TV for one last time. So the only way we could reach our friend far, far away, was to send him letters. And we did - we also enclosed our delicious Norwegian chocolates that we know our friend liked so much. Well, you may already have guessed what happened. My husband and I got this letter in the mailbox two weeks ago. I was expecting to read good wishes for Christmas and the next year. No, the letter started; "By the time you get this letter, I 'll be gone". I was speechless, I felt numb. Did I really sit there with words from a friend who said goodbye? Was I really reading the words written only five days ago and with ink that had just dried? It couldn't be the case? My God, please say that he changed his mind. Jerry did not change his mind. He shot himself the day before we got his letter. He went to look for the "Lady of his Life" and he asked us "to wish them good luck". Tough reality, hard to believe, yet it is true. I came to the conclusion that Jerry had the right to make his own choices even if they hurt like hell for his two step sons and us. Keeping Jerry and Jann in my heart and remembering them for the wonderful persons they were, I have wished them both good luck on their next journey. I think of them every day and I light a candle for them. I have also made my choices, and one of them is to keep the good memories and moments I have from my friendship with Jerry and Jann. Then I have to go on with my own life and I see many good things that I have and that are to come. I have family, friends, neighbours and colleagues. I live in a peaceful and rich country. I have absolutely everything I need and much more than that. Sometimes I believe I have too much. I also have an optimistic point of view and I believe that Life is a challenge. Furthermore, with all the challenges I am given, I will grow when I deal with them. I want to wish all my faithful readers and Life Coaching clients a peaceful and simple Christmas. I wish you all an inspiring New Year and I'm looking forward to your motivational mails in 2013. I am also looking forward to coaching you in 2013. For those who have not visited our Life Coaching web page, click here Take care of yourself, make the choices you believe in and love yourself. I love you! Kind regards, Marianne Today I am grateful - also this day.
I have: - three wonderful children - lovely grandchildren - a loving husband - faithful friends - a warm home - clean nature outside my house - a safe country - a healthy body - an interesting job - lots of books - enough food I have all I need and much more than that too. I live a life in abundance. I am a privileged person, I am happy and I am grateful. Dear friends from all over the world. Norway has lost its virginity. Terrorism in its worst form hit Norway only a few days ago. I feel extremely sad. Around seventy-five young people were killed in a terrible way on July 22nd. They were shot - one bullet and they were gone. These young people were participating in a peaceful, political seminar. They were taking part in something they believed in and worked for - equal rights for all inhabitants of Norway, whether that be black or white, Muslim, Buddhist, Hinduist, Jewish or Christian. Never had we thought that this would happen to us. We thought it only happened in the USA, Finland and other countries. I have so many thoughts, so many questions. How could this young man kill innocent people? Why did he do that? What does he feel afterwards? Is his mind completely together? My first reaction when I heard about the action was: What a bastard! Let him die. Will this help the young people who were killed? Will it help the families of these young boys and girls? I believe the answer is no. Other forces will take care of this - the murderer will have to live with the karma in his next life and the next one and the next one. Instead of spending my energy on this murderer, I put all these young people into the Light - these young boys and girls who were taken so brutally away from us. I put their families and friends into the Light. I also do the same with the killer's family and friends. They all suffer. We all do - all Norwegians do - people around the world have proved that standing together is important. People in other countries suffer - many of them know what we are going through. We pray together, we light millions of candles, we put down flowers in front of cathedrals, in lakes, in front of Norwegian embassies in many countries, in front of homes. In this way we support others as well as ourselves. This is a tragedy to mankind. May we learn something from it. May we still trust people. May we not get paranoid or suspicious. May we still believe in the best in everyone. May we pray for those who need guidance and help. May our hearts be filled with love. I have lit a candle each day to send Light to all those who need it. I will now go and light a candle again. Also, I ask for support to live my life in harmony with others and with love. 75.000 people were gathering in a parade in the city of Stavanger. This picture was taken outside the cathedral. Stavanger has 125.000 inhabitants. What would you do differently if you knew nobody would judge you?
Av og til kommer vi i en klemme - hvilket valg skal vi ta? Hva om jeg velger...................? Eller hva om jeg heller velger..........?
Hva kan konsekvensen være? Hva vil andre si? Valgets kvaler kan være tungt å forholde seg til. Mange skyver problemstillingen under teppet - glem det! Heller ha det gøy! Dans og le! Alt er jo bra. Vel, er det det? Nei, det "noe" ligger og verker i bakhodet og det slipper ikke taket, egentlig ikke. Det har kun blitt trykket bakover i køen og så ligger det der og venter på å slippe frem - kanskje i en helt annen form. Hvorfor skriver jeg om dette? Jo, det har seg slik at mannen min og jeg kjøpte oss et rekkehus i høst. Vi ville flytte fra den vesle byen vi bodde i og tilbake til hjembyen min - bare 30 km unna. Vi ville selge det store, romslige huset, vi ville flytte til noe mindre. Da vi flyttet inn var alt et eneste kaos - flyttelass og nytt kjøkken ankom med en halv times mellomrom. Vi bodde på hotell første natten. Nå begynte arbeidet: kjøkkenet skulle installeres - heldigvis hadde vi folk som gjorde det for oss. Men vi hadde malere, elektrikere og rørleggere i huset. Alt var et rot. Vi hadde liten plass å bevege oss på. Så gikk det mot jul! For oss betydde det gaveinnkjøp, litt baking, pynting og invitasjon til selskaper. Det ble en flott jul. Vi var kommet svært godt i gang - Bob hadde malt mange rom og det ble flott. Nå kunne vi endelig sette oss ned og nyte den nye plassen vår. Jeg hadde nylig (tilfeldig???) lest om et eldre par - førtidspensjonert - som arvet huset etter hennes foreldre. Det var i ei bygd i en av Norges daler. De flyttet dit og alt så ut til å være bra. Etter 13 år dør kona og mannen flytter tilbake til byen de hadde bodde sammen i så mange år. Han kunne fortelle at de hadde mistrivdes i konas barndomshjem siden de flyttet inn i huset. Likevel så turde de ikke innrømme hverken overfor venner og kjente at de hadde gjort en feil. Derfor ble de boende og de levde relativt ulykkelige der. Jøss, historien gjorde inntrykk på meg. Så hva tror du jeg vil dele med deg her? Jo, Bob og jeg våknet som fra et mareritt like etter jul - bare for å oppdage at vi var på feil plass til feil tid. Dette var slettes ikke plassen for oss. Vi skulte over mot hverandre og lurte på hva den andre følte og tenkte! Det viste seg at vi var samkjørte - begge hadde samme opplevelsen - vi hadde begått en stor feil. Dette var vi ikke klar for! Rekkehuset var for lite - vi hadde ikke armslag - rommene var ikke slik vi ønsket. Vi hadde ikke sett dette da vi var på visning - vi hadde sett mulighetene og den vakre hagen. Nå så vi et annet bilde - et bilde som ikke stemte med det vi ønsket. Det som er mitt poeng nå er at vi var modige, modne og tøffe nok til å innrømme først og fremst for oss selv at vi hadde begått en feil. Deretter kunne vi formidle dette til familien vår og venner. Vi ble møtt med forståelse for vår beslutning og vi fikk støtte til å gå videre. Det var en lettelse. Vi har kjøpt et hus som vi garantert vil trives i. Vi var nøye denne gangen med å se alle detaljer - i alle fall mener vi det selv. Så vi flytter om 4 uker og ser frem til det. I går hadde vi et herlig selskap her hjemme - de nærmeste vennene våre var inviterte. Vi lo og spøkte; var de inviterte til innvielsesfest eller avskjedsfest?! Det var en fortsettelsesfest! Livet går videre. Vi er fornøyde - både med nytt huskjøp og med oss selv som våget å være ærlig og tro mot oss selv! Jeg satt med en gruppe personer, alle engasjert i en diskusjon om hvem som kom til å bli stemt ut. Bli stemt ut? Jeg forstod ikke helt hva de snakket om. Skulle noen bli stemt ut fra en større sammenheng? Det hørtes litt rått ut, syntes nå jeg.
Det viste seg at det var en TV-serie de snakket om. Så spurte de meg hva jeg syntes. Ja, hva skulle vel jeg si - jeg som aldri ser TV. Så jeg sa som helt ærlig er; jeg bryr meg ikke om TV og tilbringer aldri tid foran en slik en. Da ble det helt stille. En av personene tittet forundret på meg og spurte; Men hva i all verden gjør dere på om kveldene? Ja, du kan så spørre. Hva er svaret tror du? Eller finnes det kun ett riktig svar? Here is the text to the last You Tube I added under "YouTubes". Does the text give you any associations or thoughts? Please share them with the rest of us - in English or Norwegian. thelovefoundation -- 8. okt 2008 — In this message, Harold W. Becker shares that it is usually during times where we face the greatest challenges in life that we also create the most beautiful opportunities. These are the moments where we often initially feel the intense sense of helplessness or hopelessness, fear and doubt. Yet, when we are fortunate to be aware of the present now moment, remember to take a deep breath, release our attachment to the challenge and the outcome, and allow unconditional love as our perspective we experience grace. For more please go to www.thelovefoundation.com He continues when challenges loom large and threatening, our first response is typically one of a reactive role towards some outer condition, person or thing. We look at the screen of life and assume it as our true reality wholly forgetting our inner presence and creative potential in the moment. If we continue to remain in this narrow point of view, we take on the energy and become victims of circumstance. These moments are the reminder that we can go within and realize what is really happening: we are facing our limited thoughts and feelings that at some point we allowed to become a part of our consciousness. Because we allowed these fractional notions in, they are adding to our limited view of life instead of understanding the bigger picture and there is always a bigger picture. Unconditional love is this grander reality. When we fully embrace and accept our selves and our choices, know our infinite ability to imagine something new, and give our heart a chance to express the wisdom of the ages, we invite the grace that is always present to be a part of our experience. We are more than our material surroundings, things, beliefs, titles, relationships and communities. We are vast, creative multidimensional beings with enormous potential, deep compassion, and incredible courage and strength. Thinking with our heart, we bring hope, help, caring, knowing, unity and solutions. Sharing this journey with each other, we reveal a new potential that includes the best for all. This is the grace of unconditional love. Embrace and celebrate the moments of challenge for they simply point the way to our heart, where a brighter future filled with unlimited possibility awaits. The Love Foundation is a 501(c) 3 nonprofit organization with the mission of inspiring people to love unconditionally. Established in 2000, TLF has become the internationally recognized leading resource for understanding and applying unconditional love. Our vision is to assist people by building a practical foundation and experience of love within individuals and society as a whole, through our education, research and charitable programs. "The Home of Global Love Day each May 1st" Harold W. Becker is Founder and President of TLF and is the author of various books including, Unconditional Love An Unlimited Way of Being Created by a kind volunteer as a gracious gift for The Love Foundation. |
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